Dear Family, Friends and Colleagues,
I had barely gotten off the airplane with a couple of hundred other nameless folk, dazed and a
little stupid from too much travel, when I was met with a sampaguita lei and a bouquet of roses
from a correct staff woman from the Philippine Department of Tourism. I was then smoothly guided
through immigration, had only to point at my luggage before someone retrieved it off the belt for
me, and then was led outside where an air-conditioned vehicle awaited to whisk me to the historic
Manila Hotel. It was a dream. Who am I?
In early June I received a frantic phone call on my voicemail from a woman identifying herself as
Gina from the Philippine Consulate in Chicago. She wanted to know if I had received a fax
inviting me to the Philippines to participate as one of the honorary "Outstanding Filipinos" to be
highlighted during Independence Day for my winning the 2004 Pulitzer Prize for Breaking News
Photography with my photos from Iraq. I would ride in a parade float with notable Filipinos such
as World Featherweight Boxing champion Manny Pacquiao and then meet Philippine President Gloria
Macapagal Arroyo in the grandstand. Would I come, all expenses paid? It was one week before the
June 12 celebrations and I was certain that I had misheard. What government calls expecting you
to fly clear across the seas on one-week notice? And besides, I am busy trying to clean my house.
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Cheryl visits Philippine President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo at the Malacanang Palace, June 16, 2004 Dallas Morning News |
The weekend went by and I finally called Gina back. Indeed, it was true and the
offer still stood. Could I leave for the Philippines in two days? I called my boss, Ken Geiger,
whose response was -- "I suppose you should do that" -- and then the circus began. I had 48 hours
to get a whole wardrobe together just so I'd be prepared for any occasion for which I might be
invited, as advised by Gina.
My coworkers were agog, each one giving advice as to how best I should wave in the parade. I
practiced each one just to show them I was very serious about their advice.
Shortly after I was delivered to the hotel, my cousins Gigi and Marie arrived with my Tita Hilda
and Tito No in tow, and they had taken the initiative to buy me an exquisite Filipiniana dress, a
two-toned avocado green butterfly-sleeve gown, which fit perfectly with only minor adjustments.
Gigi had arranged the beautician, a woman who claimed expertise in both make-up and hair, to
arrive at 5:30 a.m. so that I'd be coiffed and glammified for my first appearance-- the Flag
Raising ceremony at 7 a.m.
The beautician meticulously applied baby blue eyeshadow, which uplifted and opened my travel-weary
sleep-deprived eyes, and she even dabbed a little taupe shading along the sides of my nose to make
it appear taller. I was feeling my cells become more and more Filipino by the second. By 7 a.m.
my transformation was complete. My hair was swept up in a French twist, and with my new slipper
pumps, I felt like a beauty contestant even though I wouldn't have made it far down the catwalk.
Heck, even if I did get any publicity out of the deal, not even the Abu Sayyaf would recognize me
afterwards.
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Manny Pacquiao versus Cheryl Dallas Morning News |
I attended the Flag Raising ceremony in Luneta Park as the sun was still low in the eastern sky
and was introduced to a variety of folk including Manila's Mayor Atienza, who after learning my
credentials said he thought he was being introduced to Miss Dallas. I flashed him my Miss
Universe smile, the one my coworker Smiley forgot to teach me, and thanked him. Afterwards, I
was invited to sit at a table of President Arroyo's cabinet members and shared breakfast with
foreign dignitaries, diplomats and politicians of all ilks.
I have never attended the Independence Day celebrations in Manila since I grew up in the province. This was truly an exciting event for me and I was as big of a geek as any staring wide-eyed at all the floats and the performances. In Manila, they call us provincial folk "Pram-de," that is "pram de probince," or translated into English "from the province."
By the time our turn came in the parade, it had began to drizzle heavily. All my glamour,
including my tall nose, was being washed away with each falling drop. The floor of the float was
wet and slippery, and worse yet was that a wheel was broken and the whole thing rolled and lurched
treacherously as we tried to hang on, me in my impossibly high heels. It was an extravagant
float, so much so that it came in four pieces and when it arrived in front of the president it was
supposed to split up and then each person or group would be announced with their accomplishment in
grand tones over the loudspeakers.
I was supposed to be on the education float, but they had about 13 people crowding that little quadrant, so seeing the nearly empty float nearby, I decided to strategize. If anyone would help me stay on my feet, it would be Boxer Manny and Tae Kwon Do Kid Mansour del Rosario, another champion in the bunch. Both were gracious enough to allow me to cling to them. If I could just make it without falling off the float or killing myself!
In between lurches on the float, I tried all the waves "the Screw in the Lightbulb" wrist-only
action wave, the "Miss Universe" elbow-action wave, the "Hi Mom, Do You See Me?" entire arm-action
wave, I figured I'd better do them all just in case anyone at home asked me if I did their wave.
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Philippine President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo holding one of Cheryl's Pulitzer Prize-winning photos Dallas Morning News |
My little digital camera was thrown to the wayside, and just when we were in front of President
Arroyo, the skies opened and the rain poured and all the photographers ran away. My moment of
glory would never to be recorded for posterity. I gave one final wave, which felt more like I was
flailing, and then was helped down by the two athletes. By the time we reached the president in
the grandstand, we were drenched. She greeted each one of us warmly and later we took our photos
with her. I wasn't feeling particularly glamorous, but I smiled as if my life depended on it.
President Arroyo joked that everyone should look at my little point-and-shoot camera since my
photo would probably be worth a lot being from a Pulitzer Prize winner. Then she was quickly
escorted out and with the sound of the chopper in the distance we all turned back into pumpkins.
The following days were filled with interviews by television, radio, newspaper and magazine
journalists. I had one photo shoot where I was seated in the middle of a grand staircase. I
turned my head this way and that and tossed my hair around just to get the feel of being a true
glamour girl. The Department of Tourism was insistent that I should be interviewed for their own
television show. The hosts were two middle-aged pretty women, former soft porn stars I was told,
who in their tight mini skirts and low-cut body-fitting blouses started the show with some salsa
dancing as they approached the stage. Everything was jiggling and shaking. All I kept thinking
was, just please-- make it stop. One of them, it turns out, was a Magna cum Laude from a
prestigious university in the Philippines, but now they were both respectable because they since
have born children.
My favorite television interview was by an MTV-like show for young people; the host's name was
Ketchup.
"Thank you, Miss Cheryl Diaz Meyer, for joining us... blah, blah, blah
Question, Miss Diaz Meyer, do you have any super heroes? "I'm sorry, excuse me? Do you
mean "heroes?" "No, superheroes, like Superman or Wonder Woman?" "Well, I'm Catwoman, didn't you
know?" "Oh," says Ketchup, flustered.
My cousin Gigi is impressed. I was interviewed by Ketchup.
Somewhere along the way, the wife of a childhood friend calls me: Hi Cheryl, this is Edna
Belleza, the wife of your former classmate Arnold. I was trying to reach you and now I work for
the president's Chief of Staff. We were wondering, would you be interested in touring the
Malacanang Palace? Sure, if it involves a meeting with GMA (President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo), I
say teasingly. Well, let me see if we can arrange that. When are you available? I'll get back
to you. Hours later, it's arranged. The president has changed her schedule to meet with me.
I get myself rigged up with my little camera and a signed print of my work, which I'm going to gift to her, and set off for the palace. I'm greeted by the Assistant to the Chief of Staff who is a warm earthbound sort of woman despite her position. A gaggle of photographers are waiting to make pictures of me and GMA and them with me.
Before GMA enters the seating room I'm moved at the last minute from one seat to the next as a
staff member tries to stage the meeting just right for the photo op. I'm practically giggling,
I'm so giddy. And the photographers are giggling with me.
GMA is announced with dramatic flair by someone whose job it is announce the president each time
she makes an entrance, and she comes out smiling simply and greets me warmly leaning over so that
I can give her a kiss on the cheek. She accepts my photo and positions it out towards the camera,
holding the pose as flashes blitz across the room. I take my own camera and take pictures of her
posing with my photograph from Iraq and the photographers in the background. They are going crazy
enjoying the scene of me making photos of GMA. It's just an all around circus. Finally, the
photographers are led away and we sit down together.
She tells me she is glad that I didn't catch a cold from the rain on Independence Day. I tell her
it wasn't a big deal. In any case, I'm sure you endured worse in Iraq. Yes, and at least there
are no dust storms in the Philippines. We talk about the elections in the Philippines and the
fact that the results haven't been announced because the opposition is claiming fraud. She says
her government will have to announce that she has won in the next day or so.
After some niceties,
the conversation stalls, so I bring up what's closest to my heart: the plight of Filipino Overseas
Workers, particularly in the Middle East. I tell her that I have met and photographed them in
Kuwait and it is a deeply troubling situation. Some of the women who had gone there to
work as domestic helpers were paralyzed from jumping out of windows to escape abuse, some had been
raped and had born children there, others were starved and forced to work with little sleep. I
told her that I hoped the Philippine government would not forget these people, some of whom are
practically enslaved, because if the government would not look out for their welfare, then who
would? At this point, GMA's smile began to freeze on her face and she stopped agreeing and
nodding at each statement. I let the conversation lull and she changed the subject.
Later I found out that on that same day one of the major newspapers in Manila had attacked GMA's
government for not looking out for Filipino Overseas Workers. Some say the Philippines rests on
the backs of these overseas workers, that the economy would literally crash if not for the
millions of dollars sent home each year to family members. How can a government complain when it
needs every dime sent home by Filipinos who do backbreaking work for a pittance, even if some of
them might as well be indentured?
We left on a good note, GMA insisting that I have brought much honor to the Philippines. I later
received an invitation from Edna asking if I wanted exclusive rights to photograph GMA June 30 as
she is sworn for her second term as president. I am honored but must decline. My life in Dallas
returns to the concerns of cleaning house.
Love,
Cheryl